Any female fan who has watched Her Private Life will find themselves falling for Ryan Gold, a talented artist, and director of an art museum. Played by Kim Jae Wook (KJW), we are all wishing for a Ryan Gold to appear in our lives. No doubt a perfect boyfriend may only appear in dramaland, but there is still no harm in daydreaming a little, right? This is especially so when it is so hard to let go of Her Private Life after watching the entire 16 episodes. Ryan Gold has totally turned into a fanboy of his girlfriend, Sung Deok Mi, and they have shown us the way lovers should treat each other in a healthy and loving relationship.
Why Ryan Gold Is The Perfect Boyfriend
1. He Is So Good-Looking
Ok, I understand looks should be secondary in our search for a life partner. But how many women can resist a handsome guy, right? Alright, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not everyone will find Ryan Gold to be that good-looking. But once he gazes into your eyes and smiles, the heat level will rise and your heart will melt by his charm. Coupled with his manliness and sex appeal, whatever barrier you have erected around yourself will simply crumble from the hotness of it all. If you have watched episode 11, you will understand what I mean!
2. He Accepts You For Who You Are
In Her Private Life, Deok Mi is a diehard fan of a K-pop idol. She invests a lot of her time into her fangirling activities and her home is filled with pictures of her idol. This is weird for most people, but Ryan Gold accepts her as she is. He doesn’t try to change her one bit. In fact, he doesn’t mind helping along if fangirling makes her happy.
As we all know, we can’t go into a relationship trying to change someone to suit our taste. Ryan Gold has shown the way here in Her Private Life. Who wouldn’t want a boyfriend who accepts you just the way you are and doesn’t think lesser of you just because of your flaws or weird hobbies?
3. He Knows How To Say Sorry
Every couple will have fights and arguments. But what’s important is how you resolve them and if you are in the wrong, an apology is in order. Although it is not easy to say sorry, Ryan Gold is the type of man who takes responsibility for his mistakes and apologizes if he has hurt his girlfriend. You can feel his sincerity and as such, it is also easier for the girlfriend to be forgiving.
So, if you have a boyfriend like Ryan Gold, you will know you don’t have to put up with an egoistic man who doesn’t know how to say sorry. Instead, he has the self-confidence to admit his mistakes to make you love him even more!
4. He Is Supportive & Understanding
In the drama, when Deok Mi got an opportunity to work in New York, Ryan Gold was supportive of her decision to go as it would be a great boost to her career. He was also understanding of her brotherly relationship with Nam Eun Gi, who showed interest in her.
Loving someone is not about holding them back but supporting them to achieve their best. It is also about being trusting and understanding instead of feeling jealous unnecessarily. Ryan Gold certainly knows what love is and he feels it deeply for his girlfriend. I guess single ladies out there can only dream of such a boyfriend and if watching Ryan Gold in Her Private Life has magnified your loneliness, I’m pretty sure you are not alone!
5. He Is Fun To Be With… And Sweet
Who wants a boring boyfriend? We all need some fun in our lives and it is always good to be able to do silly things with the guy we love. The spontaneity of the moment and ability to laugh at ourselves will make us much happier. While Ryan Gold can be really serious when working, he can also be very playful while dating. The flour play in the cooking scene comes to mind.
Imagine having so much fun while on dates with your boyfriend. And that fun can also be pure sweetness with the way he gazes at you, gives you little kisses here and there, and says things that melt your heart like butter. Try replaying the scenes of Ryan Gold with Deok Mi in your mind. Wouldn’t that make your sugar level shoot through the roof?
Ryan Gold Has Raised The Bar
Apart from the above reasons why Ryan Gold is the perfect boyfriend that every female would dream of, let’s not forget that he is also a talented artist. He can draw you while you are posing or even sleeping. It sure must be heartwarming to catch him looking at you and drawing knowing that he is now a fanboy of yours.
Well, of course, I know it would be impossible to find a Ryan Gold in real life. Sob! Sob! We can only re-watch the drama and the video clips to satisfy ourselves and let our imagination run wild. But even if Ryan Gold doesn’t exist in real life, he has certainly raised the bar of a perfect boyfriend in rom-coms. I think I probably can’t watch another funny romance drama anytime soon without comparing it to Her Private Life.
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